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  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_field_accesslog_path::init() should be compatible with views_handler_field::init(&$view, $options) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/statistics.views.inc on line 289.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_field_file::init() should be compatible with views_handler_field::init(&$view, $options) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/system.views.inc on line 225.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_filter_term_node_tid::value_validate() should be compatible with views_handler_filter::value_validate($form, &$form_state) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/taxonomy.views.inc on line 933.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_field_upload_description::init() should be compatible with views_handler_field::init(&$view, $options) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/upload.views.inc on line 269.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_field_user::init() should be compatible with views_handler_field::init(&$view, $options) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/user.views.inc on line 414.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_filter_user_name::value_submit() should be compatible with views_handler_filter_in_operator::value_submit($form, &$form_state) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/user.views.inc on line 746.
  • strict warning: Declaration of views_handler_filter_user_name::value_validate() should be compatible with views_handler_filter::value_validate($form, &$form_state) in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/modules/user.views.inc on line 746.
  • strict warning: Non-static method view::load() should not be called statically in /home/nikkie/white.miceplans.net/modules/views/views.module on line 716.

A friend of mine asked me a peculiar question lately, and I realized, quite surprisingly, that I more or less knew the answer. He asked me what I wanted out of life.

I want: A job that I love doing, friends that I love being with, and maybe a special person that I trust to be my counterpart.

The first I work for at school. This is why I go to classes, do homework, and work. I have a clear plan for how I want to get where I'm going, and I'm on the way to accomplishing it.

The second is harder. How do you plan to have friends that you love being with? You meet people, you hang out with them. You maintain older friendships. You make time for the people in your life that you would like to spend time with. You plan major events in your life around what will keep that circle of friends in your life.

Sometimes your circle of friends grows, sometimes it shrinks, sometimes it completely twists around in crazy ways. Sometimes you have to move across the country for your job, and be away from all of them.

I used to think that it would be an utter crime to not take a position a long way away because of people in your life. I've since come to think that that is utterly ridiculous. It *may* be the wrong thing to do, but what are you really going to remember about that portion of your life in 20 years? The job you had? Or the friends you had? My physics prof always said it was the people. And he was a genius, so I'm inclined to believe him.

I've done a lot of moving across the country for educational reasons. And while I learned a lot in school...the people are truly what sticks with me. I think at this point I'm finally ready to be honest with myself, and what's really important in my life.